The ART of making LISTS

List-making is a noble and highly skilled activity. Traditionally, the ideal setting required cheap sparkling wine and chocolate chip cookie/cheescake, life planning and nightdreaming, between midnight and 4am. However, in modern days lists are typically produced during working hours and shared intercontinentally over cyberspace. There are many types of lists with which I intend to populate this cybercorner of silliness, but to be true and fair to the Art, I will start by sharing THE list, in its newest and updated version.*

The following criteria are ESSENTIAL: 

- must be single and monogamous and must have had a one digit number of partners - those who have ever cheated on a partner need not apply. Applicants who are divorced and/or have children will only be considered in exceptional circumstances;

- must speak fluent English, fluent Italian would be a strong advantage - those with an unhealthy fascination with Italy need not apply;

- those holding EU/US/Canadian passoports will be given priority (notice: 'passports' not 'citizenship') - those not holding passports need not apply;

- must be shy (but not too much to ask me for coffee once I've suggested it he has agreed);

- must be dorky enough to have a bad hair cut and limited sense of style - those with an excessive interest in video games need not apply;

- must be goofy - this does include dressing up in costumes for parties and being silly without having ingested large amounts of alcohol;

- must enjoy some amount of healthy gossip;

- political conservatives and religious fundamentalists need not apply;

- must have an unhealthy addiction to travel;

- must be sociable and capable to apply the correct social behavior to a variety of settings without external guidance;

- must NOT flirt. Ever. (Not even with me - talking will do);

- must not be addicted to substances ('substances' includes, but is not limited to: cigarettes, alcohol, illegal drugs, medicine of any sort, TV). Infact, he won't make any use of cigarettes and drugs whatsoever and very limited use of TV;

- must be based in London. ('Based' = have a job and permanent address and spend at least 8 months a year);

- flakey people need not apply.

The following seem understood, but empirical studies suggest it is best NOT to TAKE ANYTHING FOR GRANTED:

- must be straight (bi will not do);

- must be decent (falling off the flat face of the Earth qualifies as lack of basic decency);

- must communicate, with whatever technology of his choice, on a regular basis;

- must have a good heart and a good mind;

- must make me laugh and laugh at and with me frequently.

The following qualities, while not essential, would certainly be an ASSET:

- siblings (preferably including at least 1 sister);

- good looks will not be disdained before careful consideration, but he who sports a perfectly sculped bicipitiello [biceps] must expect to be received with a certain degree of wariness;

- blushing in a way that gives a good indication of interest would be appreciated;

- atheists and 'spiritual but not religious' types will only be considered in exceptional circumstances;

- money (family money does not apply). Bankers and consultants strongly encouraged to apply. World-saving penniless idealists need not apply;

- must enjoy the theatre in many of its forms;

- must have interests in things other than football and alcohol. Interest in football and alcohol will not be held against him, if he can prove a healthy balance of interests in current events, travel, museums, books, curiosity for things he doesn't know, people (interest in people does not equate to gossip).

The following qualities would be an ADDED BONUS (as I have evidence to support their existence):

- fluency in at least 3 languages;

- must have lived in at least 3 countries & 2 continents (note: Puerto Rico does not qualify as a separate country but the UK is, of course, a continent of its own) - ideally he will have lived in a developing country, but exceptions will be made;

- postgraduate degree (this is not in the 'essential' category so that i don't appear snobbish. However, I really am, so interested candidates should make sure they are at least pursuing their first prostgraduate qualification at the time of application). Academic types pursuing post-docs who have never set foot in the real world need not apply.

* The Original 84 point List has been recently rediscovered during the excavation of a New Jeresy basement. As soon as it is made public, a detailed comparative study will be carried out and the findings will be shared.